Candy Floss Dreamz: September 2006

Went to see sootet off after danceclass.That smart ass is going to Cambridge law on a PSC scholarship. Why are friends of mine all so smart and going to cool places to study while im stuck in singapore? But well, i cant complain, since i chose not to get any overseas scholarship despite my parents encouraging me to.

Bye sootet! have fun in Uk and remember to bring back christmas present for me!(i doubt he would ever read this though)

Jianglei was reading in the bus and i was feeling bored, so pardon the silly pictures

Miss Clarity Cafe

lunch with my dearest og mates at Miss Clarity Cafe!

peirong

soon leong, sharon, yvonne

michelle

Labels: wine and dine

Fishermen's Wharf

Met up with sab and ys for dinner.Omg, i cant believe i haven met up with them for sooooo long!

Fish N Chips!!! For only $6.50, you get to enjoy a mouth-watering huge serving of cream dory fillet with light, crisp batter, fresh and soft fish. Yummmmyyyyy.

Yuanshao and Jianglei

sabrina,my closest friend in class.I still remember those days in the old Rj campus, walking through the garden to the science lab,shoulder to shoulder. I miss those days :(

Im too short. Damn.

boys will always be boys, no matter they are 9 or 19*shake head*

After dinner was chilling out at Forbidden City

YuanShao, who has really matured a lot. More like a "man", haha.

back to the good old days

After such a long period of separate lives, it's back to the four of us again.The great company, the stupid things we say and do, making ourselves an embarrasment, confiding in each other. Even though we havent hang out for quite a long while, the friendship and closeness didnt fade. Love ya guys lot!

Labels: wine and dine

DISCLAIMER: The following post is based on the author's personal observation rather than targetting at anyone.

Many a times, boyfriends get angry at their girlfriends for attracting guys, saying that they must have given other guys the wrong impression by being too close to them or not doing enough to avoid unnecessary attention. However, it is seldom the girl's fault, is it?

Case 1 : Guys are generally attracted to beautiful objects and it is only natural for a guy to fall for some pretty or charismatic girl whom they may not even know. In this case, is it the girl's fault that some desperado is going after her?What do you expect the girl to do, disfigure herself so that no guy will ever be attracted to her beauty?

Case 2: Girls that are warm and affable are usually well-liked. Now, here comes the problem. Some guy(usually those kind that dont have many friends) starts liking the girl because she talks to him or thinks(or should i say dreams) that she likes him because she talks to him(dotz). But she is nice to EVERYONE, not exclusively him! Even the poor old man on the street will receive just as much kindness from her. So what should she do? Practise double standards by being sociable to girls only and being cold and aloft to other guys?

Case 3: Sometimes, the boyfriend is just being over-sensitive, thinking that some guy like his girl because that guy has been nice to her. However, that guy has not done anything explicit to indicate interest, so it is not really reasonable to shun him totally. Maybe he is just amiable to everyone. Misinterpreting someone's friendliness as interest is a common misunderstanding between people. Assuming that a guy likes the girl will make the girl seems like overrating herself too much, as if everyone likes her. You get what i mean.

That being said, the girlfriend still has the obligation to avoid any guy who starts to manifest interest in her.It is only right that she keeps away from him and makes things clear to him- that she is attached and not at all willing to jeopardise her relationship with her boyfriend. If he remains undeterred(some people just choose to fan jian, dont you think?), then the boyfriend is welcomed to bash that irritating guy up and warn him to steer clear. And, the boyfriend should not blame it all on the girl(unless being attractive or nice is a crime) since she has done everything she could and never once has been unfaithful.

In the end, it all boils down to insecurity and lack of trust. If a guy is confident in himself and treats his girlfriend well, he should have no fear of her leaving him for someone else. Even if she does, it is her loss. If he trusts his girlfriend enough, he will know that she will never ever cheat on him.

my present from jianglei :D

He made it all by himself! Aint my boyfriend great?

Ten Reasons why you are not losing weight.

No. 7 You have hit a plateau

Almost everyone reaches a weight loss plateau at some point. As your body adapts to your workouts, it becomes more efficient at it and, therefore, doesn't expend as many calories doing it. You may find that after your initial weight loss, your progress will slow down and eventually stop.

Some common reasons for plateaus include:

Doing the same workouts over and over. Your body needs to be challenged to progress, so make sure you're changing some part of your program every 4-6 weeks.

Not eating enough calories. If your body doesn't have enough fuel to sustain your level of activity, you can actually stop losing weight.

Overtraining. If you exercise too much, the body sometimes responds by decreasing the amount of calories you burn during the rest of your day.

so in short, i should eat more and exercise less! Yay!!! How great is that :D

my sis just told me that some j1 form Rjc committed suicide yesterday at his home. Jumped to his death apparently.Reminded me of justina who hung herself.

Sigh, what could it be that is so troubling that they have to resort to taking their own lives? Are things as bad as they seem?

I am more determined than ever to be a psychologist. I never fathom the complicated mind of people but i will one day.

The world would be a better place if we understand each other alittle better, don't you think?

Pasta Fresca

oooh, i love the twelveth of every month cos it's our monthly anniversary and most important of all.......

The Excuse to INDULGE in GOOD FOOOOOD!!!!!!!!!

This time we went for Pasta Fresca located at sixth avenue road :D

i love the cosy and family ambience it gives

the homemade ice lemon tea that we didnt order

Capricciosa
basic pizza bedded with spicy beef salami, black olives, ham, artichokes, mushrooms and anchovies

the cheapest and most yummy pizza ever! I think im like addicted to it :pBis Di Pasta Al Forno
oven baked combination of lasagne All' Emiliana and Crespelle Alla NizzardaCrespella Con Gelato
Sweet pancake in strawberry and pistachio ice cream, served with whipped creamwhat a satisfying meal *grinz* jianglei is so fat and heavy the chair sank!